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A Timeless Setting for Exclusive Weddings & Special Events

Book your In-Person Tour: 

Email Karen Macdonald

Our Venue Rental Fee and Details are below.

 Love is Love!

We welcome everyone to our farm for their beautiful wedding!

WE ARE BOOKING FOR  2023 and 2024

2022 is completely booked!

We book Weddings on Saturday and Sundays

Rental Time: 9:00 AM – 11:00 PM

(Earlier morning arrival time may be accommodated)

Our price is the same for both Saturdays and Sundays

Imagine all your favorite people in the most magnificent setting of 60 private acres of majestic forest, lavender fields, and highlighted with century old historic barns meticulously restored with the most exquisite modern features. Lavender Oaks Farm is located less than 5 miles to downtown Chapel Hill, NC, very close to all the hotels, restaurants, only 30 minutes to RDU Airport, and yes, Uber/Lyft and shuttles (large and small) come to our farm.  You can arrive as early as you want on your wedding day and end the night as late as you want as long as your vendors remain to complete our venue clean up. We’re here every step of the way to guide you through wedding planning, day of wedding coordination, and since we’re also artists and graphic designers we’ll create all those amazing welcome signs, seating charts, unique bar menus, and other custom pieces to bring your wedding vision to life!

The Details: 

Our Barns:

Our two historic timber frame barns are the heart of our farm.  Our main Barn, circa 1900, is 7,000 sq. ft., elegant with a touch of rustic, adorned with opulent wrought iron and crystal chandeliers, temperature controlled, and includes our beautiful Bridal Suite, a separate retreat room for unlimited possibilities (photo booth, ice cream vendor), a 1,000 sq ft Loft, gourmet kitchen, spacious restrooms, and our Lavender Oaks Farm Shoppe. Walk outside our main Barn and enjoy our 3,000 outdoor patio with our stone fireplace, wrought iron gazebo, all overlooking our 4,000 lavender plants. We faced our main Barn east so the outdoor patio gets all the afternoon shade which is the perfect lighting for your event. Our covered outdoor Pavilion Barn is a beautiful setting for your ceremony, cocktail hour, or as a rain contingency plan.  We rent our barns for weddings and special events year-round and include all your Event/Wedding Planning, a Day of Coordinator, quite a lot of décor, tables, chairs, linens, centerpiece items, graphic design services, parking attendant, and even all your long burning candles, and more! 

Full Service Wedding Planning: Included

Wedding Day Coordinator: Included

Beautiful Decor and Furniture: Included

 Bridal Party Suites: Two separate retreat rooms included

Two beautiful and spacious private dressing areas. One located inside our main Barn complete with a large vanity bar, stylish sofas and chairs, Keurig coffee maker, Bluetooth speaker, and private entrance to restrooms and outside areas. The other is our upscale Log Cabin located a short walk from our main Barn and includes a full restroom, kitchenette, bistro style seating inside, and covered porch with lounge furniture, plus it is heated and air-conditioned for year round comfort. 

Chairs/Tables/Linens: Included

Reception Decor:

Many items for centerpieces, signage, easels, and more!


We’ll recommend our FAVORITE Vendors, but you may also bring in your own vendors.

Caterers must be full service and licensed in NC.


You may bring in your own alcohol, but all alcohol must be served by bartenders provided by your Caterer. You must obtain the required “Limited Occasion Special Use Permit” from the NC ABC if you plan to serve liquor. This is not a liquor license.

Ceremony Areas:

Our 60 acre farm has several options for your ceremony including our 3,500 outdoor patio with wrought iron gazebo or stone fireplace overlooking our lavender fields and surrounded by the most enchanting majestic forest. Our covered Pavilion Barn with a solid roof for any weather concerns is another option for either your ceremony or cocktail hour. Also, our farm has a large pasture with 600 lavender plants surrounded by acres of forest. 

Photo by Heba Salama Photography


Guest Parking:

Our large visitor parking area is well lit with 20′ tall LED post lights and is plenty of space for all your guests. Plus, we allow your guests to leave their cars overnight. 


We invite you to schedule a tour and see all the beautiful highlights that has won our venue “Best Event Space of Chapel Hill” for 2020 and 2021.  Email to arrange your tour.

 The Cost:

Our Rental Fee is $12,500

Rental Time: 9:00 AM – 11:00 PM (Earlier morning arrival time may be accommodated)

The average wedding budget our couples spend is $35,000 including our rental fee, and because we include so much we find that we save our couples from all the stress and those added expenses. We allow you to drop off items including your own alcohol days before your wedding, and come back the next day to pick anything up, so you have the luxury of time to relax on your wedding day. We rent our main Barn for unlimited time on your wedding day, so you can relax and choose an end the night that fits your celebration! We invite you to contact us to schedule a tour to see how we can make your wedding day spectacular!

Additional Services:

Floral Packages: Starting at $2,500

Graphic Design:

As artists and designers we can create and customize your wedding vision and assist with Save the Dates, Invitations, Seating Charts, Welcome Signs, and More! 

Rehearsal Dinners, Bridal Luncheons: 

We would love to host your pre-ceremony festivities and only offer rental of our Barns for Rehearsal Dinners and Bridal Luncheons to our already booked couples. 



Here are the details:

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Photo by Heba Salama Photography


At 6,760 sq ft, a walk inside will transport you to days gone by of hand hewn beams accented with wrought iron and historic fixtures.





Two enchanting retreat rooms, a kitchen, two spacious restrooms, and a 1,000 sq ft loft create a timeless setting and pays homage to the beauty of our lavender.

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Our Pavilion Barn, circa 1865, is a 1,320 sq ft, open-air, restored hand hewn oak timber frame barn and is adjacent to our Lavender Barn and fields.




Our historic barns beckon to provide a tranquil escape to breath in the peaceful vista of lavender surrounded by majestic oaks, tulip poplar, and loblolly pine trees.

For more photos of our barns and farm, please follow:

Instagram @lavenderoaks

Facebook @lavenderoaksfarmnc